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Mentoring Works!
Every
year, Big Brothers Big Sisters agencies nominate matches for the
"Big of the Year" award. The BBBS agency in Great Bend,
KS sent in the following, nominating Kelly Seifert as the Big Brother
of the Year for Kansas.
We've
had the pleasure of having Kelly and Dylan join us on a number of
Pass It On events, including pheasant hunts and fishing trips. Dylan
is a neat kid and Kelly is just the kind of mentor we are hoping
to find. We just need to find a whole lot more Kelly's...and we
know you are out there!
Big
Brother Kelly Seifert and Little Brother Dylan Frank
BB Kelly and
LB Dylan have been matched since January 26 of 2007. When asked
what he liked best about having a mentor during their one year match
evaluation, LB Dylan replied “everything”.
Initially
Kelly and Dylan’s match activities focused mainly on just
having fun together, they like to go bowling, attend movies and
go out to eat. Unless its hunting season of some sort that is, then
their match activities focus almost exclusively on planning hunting
trips, hunting locally, and driving long distances to attend any
Pass It On - Outdoor Mentoring activities they hear about throughout
the state. Kelly and Dylan are our “fearless hunters”
match, our most active Pass It On program participants. If you ask
BB Kelly, he will tell you Dylan is always interested in shopping
for hunting supplies, talking about hunting and making future plans
to hunt with his Big Brother. (Editors
note: We all know that the anticipation of the hunt is 90% of the
fun...Dylan has found that out too!)
Dylan has had
his share of ups and downs during the course of their match. Towards
the end of the year last year, he was struggling in school, having
difficulty meeting his teacher’s expectations and it began
affecting his peer relationships. Kelly and Dylan’s match
that had primarily been just fun and hunting focused soon took a
new turn. BB Kelly began taking an interest in Dylan’s school
problems, he would ask Dylan’s Mom consistently at each outing
how Dylan was doing in school, he would ask Dylan how school was
going.
When teachers,
other family members in Dylan’s life, and Dylan himself became
negative and pessimistic about the problems he was experiencing
at school, BB Kelly tried to focus on the positive and provide encouragement.
Luckily, Dylan’s Mom arranged for him to see a specialist
in Kansas City who was able to identify Dylan’s dilemma as
dyslexia. Dylan was fortunate to be able to attend a special month
long “school” in Kansas City that helped him learn to
adapt with dyslexia.
When
Dylan came back recently from Kansas City, he asked his Grandma
if he could stop by the new Big Brothers Big Sisters office to see
his Case Manager. He had a big hug and a big smile and said his
time in Kansas City was good. But what he really wanted
to know from his Case Manager was – had he missed any hunts?
Dylan spent the next half hour describing how cool the big Cabella’s
store was in KC. (Editors note: I think
we have a life-long hunter in Dylan!)
Dylan
was on the waiting list for a very long time. Now that Dylan has
the BB he had always wanted, it has positively affected almost every
aspect in his life. He feels blessed to have BB Kelly and Kelly
too feels truly blessed to have Dylan.
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